Why is Fun So Important?

Too often, with Law of Attraction and Feeling it Real. people become quite serious about manifesting. This wouldn't be a big deal if being very serious wasn't sending out the vibration of "I don't have it now and manifesting it is crucial." Which, as you can guess, isn't the highest of frequencies. When we can make feeling it real fun, we raise the vibration of our manifesting to one of "life is good now, and this neat thing would be wonderful too!". This, as you can imagine, nets more powerful results.

Unfortunately, the vibration of "fun" or "play" is seen as quite frivolous in our action oriented society. Many people actually plan on waiting to have fun until they retire! But, the truth about the vibration of fun is that it is a high vibrating, fast moving frequency that always helps with peoples' manifesting, never hinders.

Haven't you ever noticed in your own life when you take time off from solving your problems and go do something for the pure joy of it, the problem more often than not, works itself out? We don't usually associate the having fun with the problem being worked out, but I've noticed in studying vibration, that FUN acts like a fuel of sorts to manifesting. That's why we have a game in my book and on the free forums called "Filling your Fun Tank" because when that "tank" runs low, we might as well stop doing our manifesting exercises because the car isn't really going to go anywhere if we're not having any fun. That's also why I call the exercises "games" in both the book, Feel it Real! and in the ICP program. The word "game" has quite a fun frequency, whereas "exercise" or "process" sounds somewhat like a college exam!

So, how can you make manifesting your desires more fun? Well, it may sound ironic, but taking fun tank day very seriously every seventh day of the program is a start. Truly make yourself have as much fun as you can on those days. In fact, in week twelve of the I.C.P. program, we've dedicated an entire week to the students having nothing but fun and keeping a 'fun log'. You can hold the FUN note for sixteen counts. You can do something little or big today just for the fun of it. You can play a game in a fun way, maybe at the beach or on a fun hike, or blowing soap bubbles, or even while watching TV. If you have kids or pets, fun just got a lot easier, because it's their natural state to have as much fun every day as possible.

So, today I invite you to stop seeing "fun" as a distraction from your manifesting, but rather to see it as the very fuel that enables your manifestation car to drive to the finish line!

What fun are you going to have today?

"Leggo My Ego!"

Okay, so today I was chatting with a friend about the 'ego'. Some teachers say to embrace it. Some teachers say the ego is the "enemy", etc.

After I got off the phone, I turned within and asked my Inner Guidance "What's up with this whole "ego" thing? Why do so many teachers say it's not good, etc. etc. What is the "ego" anyway?

Well, I felt a surge of happy goosebumps(always a clear sign that my Intuition is speaking) and I got a FIRBEE translation of what the "ego" is.

Ready?

The Ego= The wanting feeling.
The Spirit=The having feeling.

The ego says I want things. The Spirit says I have everything. The ego says there's not enough. The Spirit says there's more than enough.

Desiring from the ego/wanting feeling is painful. Desiring from our Spirit of feeling like we already have it is heavenly.

Neat, huh?

But instead of hating our wanting/needing feelings, why not LOVE those feelings too? Thank them, embrace them. Talk tenderly to our wanting/needing feelings. Tell them we love them too and instantly the "ego" melts into havingness and love.

I love you. I say thank you to you all today. I love having a place to share this stuff!

Love and Magic,
Denise

Do It For The Feelings, Not The Manifestations

When we make our secondary goals the manifesting and the primarily goals the feelings, we free up a lot of energy to enjoy the precious present moment!

I like to think of our biggest dreams as the object of our meditation that helps us to feel great bliss in our here and now!

So, why not decide that the only thing you want from your top three desires is all those juicy feelings? And then decide to feel those right now!

Love and Magic,
Denise

Familiarity Breeds Success

Let's face it. The first time you try to get into the feeling place of already having your desires, it may feel a bit contrived, foreign and unfamiliar. That's because you have spent very little time hanging out on that reality's frequency and you are so much more used to the feelings of wanting it or needing it, which means not having it. Becoming familiar with the feelings you would have if you manifested your desire takes time. It takes time to get to know your desire's frequency. Just as when you meet someone for the first time, you aren't familiar enough with them to call them your best friend. It takes time and familiarity.

Can you learn to become friends with the feelings you would have if your desire was already here? The more often you spend time with those feelings (either by doing magnetizers or games or your own process), the more familiar you become with the frequencies and the easier it gets to feel those feelings. Just like after awhile you feel comfortable opening up to a friend you have learned to trust over time.

Another aspect of familiarity is that the more we practice as "vibrational musicians", learning to hold the note of already having our desires, the more naturally our body and brain chemistries change to accommodate the new feelings. Also, the more magnetic we become to these feelings and the thoughts that attract them. After awhile, it gets downright easy to feel the feelings of already having your desire. It just takes repetitive practice.

It takes a few "get to know you dates" with those feelings of having it before it starts to feel normal. Once you get past that initial discomfort, it's like you become fast friends with those feelings and it begins to feel more natural having your desire than not having it.

When that happens, manifestation is inevitable.

So, get to know those feelings. I do my magnetizers every day even now! After awhile the feelings become more and more normal and I know, the more natural it feels, the faster it's on its way to me!

Love and Magic,
Denise