What Is It That Keeps Us From Staying Positive?

What is the one thing that stops us from feeling it real? I'll tell you in a minute, but before I do...

You know, the little trick to making The Law of Attraction work in your life is to somehow find a way to feel fulfilled before you get all the goodies. To get yourself to actually feel like all of your dreams have already come true before they do. (Just like in the magnetizers and vibrational games). To imagine the joy so vividly that you actually alter your body chemistry to "buzz" with the delight of having the desire before it gets here.

Do it long enough and often enough and you will become a highly charged magnetic force towards your desire.

Many people who practice feeling it real with me at my website say they know what to do, but they find themselves procrastinating on doing it.

Why is that?

What is it that stops them from doing something they've seen work in their own lives and the lives of so many others?

Negativity Addiction.

I know it sounds crazy, but some part of us craves worry, lack, fear, doubt, judgment, etc. because we are familiar with the body chemical hormones that flood into our bloodstream when we do so. When we start imagining that we're happy, rich, successful, thin, healthy, and fulfilled, that addictive part of our mind (Some people call it the "ego") steps in and finds ways for us to get our focus back on lackful conditions and situations.

Even people who do visualize and get into the feeling place of already having their desires can end up feeding the negativity by constantly checking to see if their desire has manifested yet. They aren't willing to hold the emotional note long enough to let the "cake bake" on its own without constantly checking on it, which is another subtle form of negative thought addiction.

Most people are completely blind to the fact that they are, indeed, addicted to negative thoughts and their emotional counterparts.

Here's something you can do every time you feel your vibration dip to the negative or you find yourself stalling on your feel it real exercises.

It's called Speed Thanking and it is very effective to break negative thought addiction if you use it RIGHT when you notice the addiction taking over. Here's how it works.

The second you feel negativity taking over, quickly say OUT LOUD Fifty Things You Are Grateful For In Your Life Right Now.

It helps if you can do this with a friend (even over the phone), but if you're alone it works just as well. State these fifty gratitudes as quickly as you can because thinking of so many things so quickly will also help you get out of the negative mental groove because your mind has to work so hard to think of things to feel grateful for.

Try it for a week and see if you don't notice your overall moods lifting because you're not feeding the negative addiction and you're literally rewiring your brain and creating new neural pathways that will make being positive get easier and easier.

Once we overcome our negativity addiction, Feeling It Real and manifesting our desires becomes a piece of cake. We then become positively addicted to feeling good! Our lives start to reflect that and it becomes a win/win success cycle!

Love and Magic,
Denise